Thats my exact age. And last this there's a life turning experience. Its very intense and extreme, really caught me off guard. I dont really know how to deal with it, since i never had a similar fight. I think its a fight. Verbal fight i course. Obviously its not street fight or whatever. Haha.
However, it really gives me a new and fresh perspective in life. Now i know that:
1) dont waste time, dont drag time, dont give a damn about unimportant thing. Appreciate and enjoy every second of your life. Choose what you want to do, and DO it right. Promptly. Never delay important thing. PRIORITIZE is the key.
2) Make plans and create the milestones. Achieve one by one. And realize that certain things happen without any plans at all. It just happens. So embrace any spontaneity too. Dont overplan. If something dont go according to your plan or becomes out of your control, make new decision FAST.
3) Live in the present. Dont EVER fret or things about past. Its history and there is NO point talking about it. Just live TODAY in the best way possible. Do stuff. Dont hesitate. You'll regret not doing. But dont do irreversible stuff of course, you decide what is it. Just live in the moment and do things that will make your future better. Today is the milestones for tomorrow and the day after.
4) Appreciate people. Once you loose them, its not easy to get them back. When you find someone who likes you, and you like them back, kindly evolve to the next level. Its the right thing to do. Solat istikharah. Dont stay in something that you know will have bad outcome. Change your relationship status if it doesnt make you happy or it felt wrong. Sometimes BFF is a better relation and sometimes H&W is a better relation. Just dont waste too much time figuring it out. Life is short.
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