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Saturday, July 7, 2012

i like to wear black abaya / jubah




Its impossible to please everybody. And i dont intent to do that. That would create to much stress. Yes, it it nice to be liked, but it's not like the world ends just because somebody don't like you or don't approve of you. I am glad that day after day, i started to care less about what others think of me. I am very flexible and i always change and always trying something new. Some people just can't accept that and begin to ask weird questions.

For example, about what i wear. Some days i wear t-shirt and jeans, some day i wear long skirts, and some day i wanna wear abaya (black jubah). So why is it when i wear normal clothes that uni students wear (shirts, jeans, skirts), nobody says nothing. But when i wear jubah, there's a whole lot of comments.

I don't wear it every single day, but often. I like to wear jubah. Nobody make me wear it. I do it myself because i want to. But i still wears jeans and long skirts and kurung and all. It's just that i like to wear jubah. I get a lot of positive comments from friends but there are some negative one, about me always wearing the same cloth and why do i wear it *skeptical eye*.

What's wrong with jubah? it follows uitm's sahsiah rupadiri, it's proper and nice, not sexy, not offensive,
and most importantly it covers my aurat. why does some people make a big deal of me wearing it. It's quite similar with baju jurung, but instead of 2 pieces, it is 1 long piece of loose clothes that covers your body.

Gimme a break. Let me wear what I want without judging. I am not pressured into it. I seriously ikhlas. Be nice please.Don't look at me up and down when you see me. It's quite uncomfortable. Thank God there's always another friend to defend me. Like 'biarlah dia nak pakai apa". Thank you.

1 comment:

  1. Black jubah is my first choice too. Especially Dubai or saudi jubah is perfect to wear as clothing material is cool.
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